Citizenship blues: The Italian Job

December 2015 – December 2016

Having tried to start the Italian Citizenship process in Naples back in December 2015, sadly, I got nowhere…this is starting to sound like The Italian Job.

More than a year on and I am no closer, though I have learnt a lot.

Although I had help from a very friendly Immigration Officer in Naples back in December 2015, who tried his hardest to assist in every way, he advised to try in Pozzuoli as we were staying there with Reg at the time.

No luck.

It was just too hard for the public servants in the Commune to start the process. After all, it was close to Christmas and interests didn’t revolve around work.

I now have to get out of the EU for 3 months, so decided to volunteer in Thailand during this exit period.

Following the 3 months out of the EU, a sketchy plan was made to return to Calabria but specifically, where my father was born: Parenti.

I naively hoped that I would have better luck in getting someone to start the process in this tiny village, especially as all my father’s paperwork would be held at the Commune (council).

I have spent over AUD$600 so far in just obtaining initial certificates, legalising these, translating these into Italian, and then legalise the translation again.

After buying a car (Lola) in the UK to drive from Somerset to southern Italy, we only made it to central France before Lola decided to die a tragic death on the busy highway.

Four buses later and 36 hours, we arrived in Cosenza, Calabria; our original destination.

Commune di Parenti

July, 2016

Having emailed the Commune di Parenti many times from Thailand and the UK, and obtaining all the required documentation (I thought) to travel to Parenti and start the process, things were sounding promising.

On arriving however, it was a very different story.

The chap I was dealing with was adamant I must live in Parenti for him to lodge the paperwork. This was after I advised that Cosenza is where I planned to live; he wasn’t interested.

Commune, Cosenza, Italy, Calabria
Nondescript building but oh so familiar – Commune di Cosenza

Commune di Cosenza

So, off to the Commune di Cosenza next.

The first visit proved a waste of time as the person I needed was on leave and told to return the following Monday.

Another week away and my Schengen clock is still ticking.

On returning the following week and waiting in line for over forty minutes, I was told by the same man I saw in the previous week, that I was in the wrong queue. I should have been waiting in front of the person’s office. Going to be a long day…

The interview at the Commune

Finally, my turn was up to see the required lady.

Politely, I took out my papers.

Everything was travelling just great and friendly, until that moment…

I pulled out my father’s Australian Citizenship certificate and her whole persona changed to one of disbelief.

Immediately, she advised it was not possible for me to continue as my father renounced his Italian Citizenship: “He was Italian when he went to Australia but he changed”. She spoke as if my father was a traitor amongst truly untarnished residents – the ignorance was priceless.

Over and over this hurdle we went…

Obviously not interested, she invented a list of ‘additional’ documents she required to start the process.

The list now included a certificate from the Italian Embassy in Australia stating that my father was still Italian at the time of my birth. The email I had from this consulate stating this fact was not acceptable – it had to be a certified document and translated into Italian.

The next hurdle was the copy of my father’s birth certificate I had in my possession, which is an official certificate in Italian that came from the Parenti Commune, but dated 1990. This lady advised it was not the “integrale” (original) and now wanted his original birth certificate, which was obviously lost, otherwise, my father would not have requested this copy in 1990.

The requests becameg absurd.

The revolving door of bureaucracy was spinning at an alarming pace.

Still with composure (but wanting to rip her throat out), I had to say that I would try to obtain all these documents and return to start the process.

The sinking feeling that this is just not going to happen was swallowing me up into its abyss of paperwork and bureaucracy.

Another angle

Decided to try a different angle.

As my partner is a dual citizen (UK and Australia) he would request Residency in Italy. I can then obtain my Residency as his De Facto – and stated in black and white.

This request posed new requirements including depositing €10,000 in an Italian bank account (not in an overseas account). If the money was in an overseas account: “the bank statement would have to be translated into Italian and legalised, so it was better for everyone if the money was here in an Italian account”.

This was becoming painful.

Although, as this seemed easier than the Citizenship route for the immediate moment, this angle posed a glimmer of hope.

Honestly, I’m starting to ask myself whether this is worth all this heartache, stress, and expense. The months spent so far with this and not having even started the process, makes me think it is just not going to happen.

The Questura – yet another office

For this new angle, a new office was frequented.

Off we went to the Questura (State Police). Throughout Italy, this office handles all Immigration, refugees, and anyone entering the country.

Whilst there, an officer appeared from behind the locked door and started calling out a name. No one responded.

To one of the guys sitting in the room, he asked: “Where are you from?” – no response.

This question was asked in Italian, English, French, Arabic, and an African language. The guy held up an A4 piece of paper in a plastic sleeve stating: “I am from Amantea”. (Amantea is near Tropea and about an hour’s south of Cosenza).

As one of the only people waiting that could speak some Italian, I was able to communicate why I was there. After speaking with a couple of officers that could not offer help, we were taken to the Senior Officer upstairs.

This officer patiently listened to me and took out her Bible, which is a few inches thick and slammed it on her desk…well not quite but she wasn’t gentile.

Thumbing her largish fingers to the page that she wanted, responded: “NO – we couldn’t apply as De Facto”.

After advising that the Questura website specifically states we can do this and the laws have changed, she was a little annoyed and responded: “NO – we would have to get married or I would have to return to Australia to apply for the 1-year Residency Visa”.

Can you imagine an Immigration Officer advising someone to get married to stay in that country?

Another dead end.

The verdict

Trying to start the process of Italian Citizenship has been an abysmal failure, yet again.

Still in Cosenza after 3 weeks of officials telling me I can only stay on a Schengen 90-day visa as this is on what I entered Italy. I was also advised that as my father obtained his Australian Citizenship before I was born, my parents were Australian when I was born – “il sangue” (blood) means nothing.

Regardless of the fact that the Questura’s online information states that I can apply through my grandparents, I was advised by the Senior Officer in the Questura that it is impossible: “you cannot jump a generation”.

More importantly, each bureaucratic office has its own system and paperwork they require, regardless of what is on any official website. Rules are invented on any given day and at the whim of who is delivering the message – nothing is concrete and everything is like shifting sands.

Officials explained that both my older sisters would not have a problem applying for Citizenship as “they were born to Italian parents, but as my brother and I were born to Australian parents, it was not possible for us”; bizarre isn’t it?

Sadly, in the 1960s, Italy did not allow dual citizenship, which was only allowed from 1992, and there is no Amnesty for people previous to 1992.

The only way I can obtain Citizenship is if I live in Italy for 3 years and then I can apply: “from a former Italian parent”; otherwise, this would be 10 years for all non-EU Citizens.

Reluctantly, I now need to fly back to Australia for an interview to apply for a 1-year visa with the intent of residency. When I return to Italy I still need to apply within 8 days, for permission to stay on the grounds of residency, which grants me 5 years here – I think, but who knows?

It appears that the email I received from the Italian Consulate in Canberra stating my father was Italian at the time of my birth was incorrect. I phoned this same person last week and basically he had made a mistake but did not want to admit to the error. This email was my proof to return to Italy in the first instance and apply.

Leaving Italy again

With a flight now booked for Brisbane in September, I have a lot of appointments and work to do in Australia, before flying back to Italy in October, this time from Sydney.

Several days of organising many emails to the Italian Consulate in Brisbane, for the year-long Residency Visa as even what is on the online information for Australia is not entirely true in reality.

I also need to have 15 months left on my passport to obtain this Residency Visa. But of course, I only have 13 months, so I need to also apply for an express passport at a higher cost (AUD$381 instead of AUD$250) before I can apply for my Residency visa. The visa takes 15 working days. So, I am leaving enough contingency (hopefully) to deal with all the officials in Australia…wish me luck.

Also including organising a badly needed roof repair and my Niece’s wedding whilst in Australia, so many tasks to complete.

Last day in Cosenza

Following a lovely cooked dinner by our wonderful hosts and friends, the day finally came to say…ciao, ciao.

We were kindly driven to Paola, which is about an hour away by car, said our goodbye’s, and now on the very comfortable Trenitalia (€15 one-way) to Roma Termini, train station.

As it is Saturday and only one fast 3-hour train leaves too early in the morning, booked the slower 11:11hrs 5-hour journey, which should arrive at 15:34hrs. This train is already full after 20 minutes.

A pleasant trip following the coastline north for part of the way – very picturesque.

Paola, Italy, Calabria
Drive to Paola

Passengers and seat numbers

One really funny thing I’ve noticed over the years of travelling is that passengers never seem to be able to find their seat numbers. Regardless whether it’s a train, bus, plane, ferry or other.

Have you ever noticed this? Why is it so hard?

The carriages on this train are numbered, albeit you have to look hard. The seats are also numbered, so there should not be an issue, you would think. Always seems to be an issue as passengers always sit in the wrong seats upsetting the whole flow in the train. Conductors have a frustrating time re-organising annoyed passengers to their correct seats.

Arriving in Rome late in the afternoon for an overnight stay, ventured out to stretch the legs.

To the Commune again – a different reason

October, 2016

After returning from Australia, another visit to the Commune was necessary.

Although not compulsory as the UK is still part of the EU, my partner decided to try for Residency to be eligible for an Identity Card this time.

The Commune advised he needed a legalised stamp stating that the health insurance was valid in Italy (although the insurance specifically states Europe and Unlimited).

So again, we walked the streets of Cosenza looking for the correct office to stamp and legalise our very expensive Travel Insurance.

After about four offices and outdated Google addresses, I decided to walk up the stairs of what I thought was a Sports Health office to see if someone could point us in the right direction.

With the name of the person we had to see, a minor miracle happened.

I had stumbled in to the correct office. But typically, the lady was out for half and hour (probably on lunch). We decided to wait, just in case.

Finally, the very helpful lady turned up and we explained that the Commune had sent us to legalise our Insurance paperwork. Advising this was not necessary as the insurance was valid, she printed out several online regulations, officially stamped a post-it note that contained her details, and advised to have the Commune phone her direct to explain everything. This is the same office that issues all EU Health cards in Cosenza.

Returned to the Commune the next morning only to be greeted by the same unhelpful frosty guy that is so disinterested in his job, he retire. I imagine he has been doing this job for 40-plus years and evident that still knows nothing about his position.

Saw a different lady who wasn’t sure about the insurance and advised to return the following morning as she had to check with her supervisor.

…and again

Returning yet again but the same lady from yesterday obviously hadn’t checked with her supervisor. And so, I explained the whole story once more to the supervisor; the same person we saw back in August that advised we needed our insurance legalised.

Refusing to accept our health insurance, I requested several times that she phone the Health office; reluctantly she did. Departments hate being told by other departments how to do their jobs…inter-department feuds.

Commune, Cosenza, Italy, Calabria
Commune’s sign above the doorway – if you’re ever in need

The next laughable excuse was as my partner did not hold an EU Health Card, the supervisor advised to have the Insurance document translated into Italian and legalised with a stamp – she would not accept an English copy.

This was a different request than when we saw her in August. Each person makes the rules up as they go along.

I lost it with her after she suggested we make a special trip to the Australian Embassy in Rome to have this done. Seriously? We are a 6-hour train journey from Rome!

I told her I’m not made of money and that I made a special trip from here to Australia just to get my Residence visa to which she mockingly replied: “then it would not cost much for you to get the translation done in Rome”. I really lost it after this and told her to forget about everything.

We are trying to do the right thing by Italy, not putting out our hand for anything, paying our way, and this is how we are treated; bid her and her colleague a good day, and stormed off.

Since then, my partner applied for his EU Health travel card online and waiting on its arrival before the next onslaught.

Yet another painful visit to the Questura

December, 2016

Today was my turn to be the good cop.

Having flown back to Australia for the interview for my 12-month Residency visa, my passport now contained the visa stamp. Although, within 8 days of arriving, I still must submit a ‘Kit’ at the Post Office, pay another €80, and book an appointment with the Questura. That interview is schedulled for December, in 2 months.

Today is that appointment at the Questura at 10:55 am.

Walking towards that oh so familiar building with migrants and refugees spilling out of the building, down the stairs, and on to the street, did not give me a warm and fuzzy feeling.

Typically it’s mostly North African and Africans waiting. Today it’s the same but also one Russian, three Asians, and me: an Australian.

The noisy waiting room is rammed with many more people – what a madhouse.

Questura, Cosenza, Italy, Calabria
Another nondescript building – a quiet day at the Questura

Although I have an allocated appointment, the order was barked at me to take a number and wait my turn, as everyone else is also waiting.

My number came up and I saw two police officers in uniform and one in civilian clothes. They started advising I could not stay for the 12-months residency as I did not own a house here…seriously? Is this a new rule invented in the last three months?

I assertively advised several times that I am not allowed to own a house in Italy as I am not a resident; and so, the revolving door of bureaucracy is rearing its ugly head again.

Finally, between the three officers, some sweet talking on my part, but also being quite assertive reminding all that I flew back to Australia for this visa (as advised by two of their colleagues in August), my paperwork is processed. In addition to having my fingerprints taken at the counter, I was taken to another building to have another full set of fingerprints taken and every section of both hands.

It is like a disorganised mad house.

Whilst I was waiting turn, one officer came into the room and advised that the waiting room was now empty. Another officer went back out there and remarked: “the room is now full, another boat load must have just arrived”!

These guys process hundreds if not thousands of applications every week.

I know this because of the mounting paper work and files in the massive shelves behind the counter. Piles of applications marked for each day of many weeks and for the last year.


Everyone at the Questura today was incredulous that I would trade Australia for Cosenza and all wanted to swap positions, and live in our house back in Australia.

One officer’s wife spent a holiday in Australia, fell in love, and wanted to move there, but the officer loved Italy and refused. So we met his wife, who also works in that office – of course.

Wishing everyone a great Christmas, we said our goodbyes, and I was advised that I would receive a call when my card is through in 15-20 days. Card, what card?

Although different officers advised different things, the last officer advised I could not leave Italy until this card came through.

I was also advised that I would have to re-apply for my next 12-month visa two months prior to my current visa expiring. This could be done in Cosenza…let’s hope so as I’m not flying back to Australia again.

Questura update – March 2017

Having received an official text a couple of weeks ago that my Residency Card was ready for collection today the 6th, at 15:05 hrs, off I trotted yet again, to the oh-so-familiar Questura.

Approaching the building, the familiar sight of many migrants spilling out onto the footpath and up the building’s stairway greeted me…so too is the very packed room inside.

It is a free-for-all inside. Noisy and not even organised chaos – indeed it is manic chaos.

There does not seem to be a process, regardless of receiving an allocated appointment. You still must wait in line…but for what? No one tells you what you need to do but you must always bring your ‘Kit’ lodgement receipt with you. This vital piece of paper contains your submission bar code – NEVER lose this receipt!

What always amazes me about this office after visiting here about half a dozen times now, is from where migrants and refugees are arriving.

The office is always full of North Africans, Africans, maybe an Asian, and a Russian or two. Typically, the dynamics of gender is out of 60-70 males waiting, there are only 2 or 3 females.

As a female seeing this, I despair as to what has happened to other females from these countries. It begs the question of why are they not here in this office?

I know for a fact that when you attend the Questura, everyone in a family must attend – no excuses.

Getting nowhere

After not getting anywhere, I moved to the front of the office with the advancing herd, pushing forward.

As the door opened and an officer poked his head out, I handed him my receipt – this is what everyone does, but in a frenzied manner.

Finally, I slipped into the other familiar little office where the officers process the paperwork and waited.

After over two hours of standing up waiting, I asked the officer if I would receive my card today. I was conscious of the time and their closure – it is 16:30hrs, so only half an hour left.

A young lady came through the door and pushed in front of me pleading with the officer to attend to her first, as she had to pick up her two young children. Mentioning that I was next, reluctantly he attended to her first – I started stressing. After about 10 minutes, the lady finished and off she went. (It pays to wear a low top and tight clothes.)

The Residency card

I was next and fumbling for my paperwork, the officer walked over to another desk where three large boxes sat. These arrived fresh from Rome. Everything is processed in Rome then sent back to various offices around the country.

Making small talk about Australia, the officer commented: “we don’t see many Australians, in fact, you’re the first I’ve processed”.

Finally, he remembered me from the December interview and asked again why I wanted to live in Cosenza. Again, I told him that my father’s family was from this region and he advised I could obtain Citizenship. I explained that I could not.

My two index fingerprints were taken again (this is the third lot of prints taken in this office), I signed a form, and my Residency card was handed over – all in about 15 minutes! I was free to go back out into the remaining pack in the entrance’s office and out again.

To my surprise, my card expires mid-October 2018 (not 2017 as I thought).

This is due to a little checkbox on the Kit’s form that requires you to select 12 or 24 months (from when I entered the country in October, not the interview date in December). Hopefully, I won’t have to go to any Questura or Commune office again, until this date (think I need to re-apply two months before for another Residency card).

At last I have the card and I’m free to relax in Cosenza.

Incidentally, if anyone has experienced a similar process, please let me know of your woes. Or, if you encountered a smooth process, I would love to hear all about this also as I may learn something new.

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  1. Madness. Follie. 😦
    Tocqueville had warned in the early-mid 19th century about the growth of bureaucracy…
    It seems we are there.
    You wouldn’t believe the hassle I am going through with the French IRS…
    Ciao, ciao

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    1. Crazy stuff. Salt to the wounds when I read that Italy granted Citizenship to hundreds of thousands of migrants last year. And although I don’t resent this at all, it just makes my circumstance even more incredulous.

      Bureaucracy is the fabric of Italy since pre-19th century times – it’s not a new invention!

      Quindi…you should write a post, I’d love to read about your woes, we can compare notes. 😉

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    2. Agree totally. Let thousands of migrants in, and hassle a few… Can’t figure it out.
      Don’t think I will write about the French bureaucracy. P…ses me off too much. 🙂

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    3. I haven’t figured it out yet and have been here almost two years and still struggling with officials. I read that the nationalities that were granted Italian Citizenship last year were mostly Romanians and Albanians, followed by Nigerians. I’m not sure how accurate this is though.

      Yeah, I know what you mean. Writing on this subject brings it boiling up to the surface again – not a pleasant experience. 🙂

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    4. Romanians and Albanians sounds logical. As for the rest… From a distance I am concerned about the future of Europe. (And Latin America) maybe I should apply for Aussie citizenship? 😉

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    5. Here in southern Italy, there are many of the ‘rest’ that beg on the streets even though they receive a roof, clothes, food, mobile phone, and a few Euros each day.

      The comment is “they earn more begging than working doing menial jobs”. I find this quite annoying as these guys are definitely economic migrants and still abuse the system. They come here and expect so much from Italy, which quite frankly, in their own country wouldn’t even get a fraction of and the reason they are here. If it’s one thing that Italians can’t stand, is begging on the street.

      Maybe you should but you need to live there for 5 years. The difference with Australia is that the legislation is in B&W and you know where you stand. Italy however, although the legislation is in B&W, the reality is 50 Shades of Grey.

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    6. Hah! I live in Mexico, and I was brought up in Africa. I know the drill. The main issue in Europe is the confusion between “Asylum” (which the left stands for) and cashing in on the European social benefits. The vast majority of migrants fall in the latter category. (But when I say that I would be labelled “far right” which I’m not) And like you say: Italians can’t stand it. Normal, average italians. Not fascists. Anyway. Buon finale di settimana. 😉


    7. Wow, such a mix, but then again, we’re all a mix really.

      Sadly, it’s a very different scenario than when my father’s family went to Australia in the early ’50s. The migrants received nothing and had to work extremely hard. My father worked on roads in Australia’s sweltering heat. He taught himself how to speak, read, and write English as in those days, migrants received no help at all. But, I could go on for hours with what their conditions were like compared to what economic migrants receive today.

      When you’re young, you don’t tend to listen or react much to those stories. It’s only when you’ve grown up enough to understand what those stories meant and what migrants endured that you start to absorb these into your psyche. Australia was extremely racist in those days.

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    8. Yes. Migrants then worked hard. With no help at all… And never complained. My family on my mother’s side is totally “blue collar” from Brittany. My grandfather was a railroad man. And I remember my mother saying: “when I was little we did not have any money, but we were not poor”. 🙂 All a question of perspective I guess.
      Buona Domenica.

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    9. I think that Society’s perspective of rich and poor has changed since then – everything is measured by the revolving door of material wealth these days.

      For me, experiences and people in life make you rich.
      A dopo 🙂

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  2. I commend you for your efforts and also for your partial success – that’s quite an accomplishment considering the formidable obstacles. I have a friend exactly in your position. His parents were Sicilian but they had to renounce their Italian citizenship when they moved to the US. He speaks Italian and Sicilian perfectly, by the way. He’s thinking of paying someone off. He knows an African who paid someone under the table 1,000 Euros and got citizenship papers. He hasn’t done it yet, but is tempted. Until then, he stays under the radar and has been in Italy for about 5 years.

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    1. Thank you – I commend myself also for the tenacity! 😉

      Wow, I didn’t know this actually happens but then again, this doesn’t surprise me at all. Your friend could have applied after 3 years as long as he is registered as a resident at his Comune.


  3. So much bureaucracy, It would drive me to drink. I am not sure I would have the fortitude to keep going as you have. Regarding the seat numbers on transport – yes I always find it extremely funny watching people trying to find their seats. Its never easy. Good luck with everything and for you next lot of encounters with the Italian red tape. (that seems to change on a daily basis )

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    1. Yes, it does – lucky vino is cheap in Italy otherwise, I’d be broke by now! The bureaucracy stifles this wonderful country and I’ve read costs over €30billion each year.

      I have a new post to write on the Italian Job as another spanner in the works last November. 😦

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  4. What a frustrating web of bureaucracy, a lot of wasting your time and an expensive process. My cousin left Venezuela for Italy and got her citizenship easily, but my uncle was still alive and it was before the E.U. was formed.

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    1. Wow, mine has been nothing but difficult and yes, a web of bureaucracy, which costs Italy 30 billion Euros each year!
      I still have more to write about this subject as the incompetence of these departments, failed to tell me that I had to register with the Commune so this is another battle I’m currently fighting.
      I wish I had done this much earlier but I could never afford the time or money.

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  5. I have just run across your blog. So very eloquent and well written. No punches pulled, just the direct truth. Strikes home! Similar, but yet disimilar experiences. My husband and I met in 1974 while I was backpacking Europe. He spoke no English and I no Italian, but the language of love won out! We went through all the official channels for his immigration to Canada, as my fiance, including the stipulation that we HAD to be be married within 30 days of his arrival. We hastily arranged the wedding, found a priest that could do the ceremony in English and Italian and started our new life in Canada. We had two children, a daughter born in 1975 and a son born in 1980. My husband became Canadian in 1979. Ha, Ha, I bet you know where this is going. As you said dual citizenship was not available until 1992, so my daughter is able to be Italian but my son not! 35 years passed and we never had the means or the want to return to his hometown. His mother and brothers came to Canada to visit but the cost to travel to Italy was beyond our budget. In the mid 2000’s, our situation changed, and the bug hit to visit his parentage. Well after the first trip, we were bitten, and returned every year, not really aware that we were overstaying our Shengen time. When we did realize that 3 months was the limit, we decided to do something about it. IE: Italian citizenship. My husband never took the time to reclaim his Italian citizenship in 1992 when they were granting the dual citizenship. As a hard head Calabrese, his response was: I have an Italian birth certificate, was born in Italy to an Italian mother and father, therefor I am Italian.! Not so sweety, Canadian through and through and Schengen applies to you! So how to be able to go to Italy for more that 3 months and maybe eventually retire there. To be continued……. Will write soon.

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    1. Hi Joanne,

      Thank you for taking the time to write about your experiences and yes, indeed, Canadians have to abide by the same Schengen rules as Australians.

      Sadly, your husband is Canadian in the eyes of Italy, regardless of his own personal views and I fully understand that this would be hard for him to swallow. It’s as if Italy sees these Italians as traitors, even though it was because of Italy that Italians lost their Citizenship when obtaining a new country’s citizenship. Bizarre isn’t it? The fact that Italy allowed dual citizenship from 1992, tells its own story, I think. Isn’t it a shame that at the same time, Italy didn’t grant some sort of amnesty for those that lost their Italian citizenship?

      From what part of Calabria does your husband hail? Together with my Schengen time and Italian residency, I’ve been living here a year now and still loving it, although the bureaucracy is something to behold and stifles the country in every way! I’ll be here until mid-October 2018 so if you need any help, please send me a line.

      Really looking forward to your next chapter…mine has come to a halt for another couple of years. Do you have a blog site that I can follow?



  6. In other reality a country should be glad to have a kind person like you 🙂 I hope times evolve and people get kinder and as we understand they have a difficult job is also complicated for us when they seem to get us inside a Kafka nightmare.

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  7. What a process that you have had to go through. It all sounds very stressful, but at least, like you say, you can relax there now. I have noticed people are unable to find seats on transportation, it really amazes me one flights when they see an empty seat, which is not theirs, and sits down only to be told by the crew to move. Is it that difficult to find the right seat?? LOL I wish you a very relaxing week x

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    1. Hi Gill,

      Yes, but now I can relax and enjoy Cosenza until the next round of bureaucracy next year.

      The seat numbering task makes me laugh every time and glad someone else has also noticed this…hope you have a great weekend. x

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  8. It’s always quite interesting to see how everyone’s process is so different. I got all of my documentations in order in Canada through the Italian Consulate and I have to say that I had no problems. I was fortunate that my father was still an Italian citizen when I was born. The most frustrating thing for me was waiting for all the long-form certificates I needed to include with my application. Then when I arrived in Italy, getting my Identity Card was easy as I was living in my grandmother’s home in my family’s small town. Given that it’s a small commune and everyone knows everyone, the process was done very quickly! I’m now in Cosenza but I’ve chosen to keep my residence in my father’s town.
    I wrote about my whole process here, if you are interested: (there is a link to the first part of my journey within that post!).
    I hope things are much smoother for you now so you can enjoy this great city! 🙂

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    1. I’ve read both of your posts and it does sound as if you had an easier time than I’m experiencing.

      Indeed it is and I think it’s a game of who can be more tenacious when it comes to dealing with these offices.

      As you read in my post, I tried my father’s village but as I was not living there, it was never going to happen. Stay tuned as I still have a very long way to go. 🙂

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  9. Welcome to Italian bureaucracy == I remember when my parents had to something that required to go to comune, they would have gone crazy and went back and forth the office like 10 times @@ I really hope u will be able to get your citizenship soon, it must be very hard >< good luck 😊

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    1. My heart cries for your parents as I know exactly what they have to endure! 😦

      I wish it was not this hard but I hear that Italy has 3-4 million Public Servants so I guess they need to justify their existence.

      I can only apply for Citizenship after I live in Italy for 3 years and not before; see if I can handle 3 years of Italian bureaucracy. 🙂


  10. Things in Europe are so unsettled at the moment, who knows if or when the EU will be disbanded. This may mean it will be easier for you to get citzenship? Good luck, and I think it’s amazing that you are prepared to live in a country that is so different from Australia. We love Europe and hopefully will continue to housesit for a few more years to come. 🙂 PS Definitely have to get back to Italy for a visit!!

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    1. Thanks for your comment. This is a very long post but it’s been a very long process to get to this stage.

      Very unsettled, especially here in Southern Italy – one of the first point-of-call for refugees and migrants.
      I have to agree that the EU-disbanding is now on the cards and fear that it might hinder my Citizenship process.

      It helps that I really enjoy living here and so does my partner (luckily) – think the food and people have something to do with it all. 😉

      Come and say hello if you find yourselves in Southern Italy and I’m still here!


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